Tuxedo of the Month
While we were in Asheville, NC having a great time at Emily’s graduation, somehow the subject of how well we knew how to dress back in the 1970s came up. Our especially good taste in tuxedos was the specific subject and David immediately brought up his favorite example from that fabled time. So I thought it would be a great idea to post a picture of that outfit.
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Kate’s 24th Birthday
Kate celebrated her 24th with a family dinner and ice cream cake. She was also awarded ‘Employee of the Month’ at work over the weekend, which was well deserved and gave us another reason to celebrate. Congratulations Kate!
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Emily Graduates from UNCA
David, Veronica and Amy travelled from Maryland, Coleman from Savannah, Georgia, and Jo and Doug from Charlotte to meet in Asheville, NC to celebrate Emily’s graduation from the University of North Carolina at Asheville. David and Veronica hosted an entire day of festivities. Emily’s decision not to participate but only attend the open air ceremony was vindicated by a nasty rainstorm that started at the very beginning and continued for about an hour. Breakfast, a movie (The Avengers), dinner and a very entertaining Ghost tour through the streets of Asheville completed a remarkable day of celebration. Congratulations Emily!!
All of the pictures can be found here
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School Days
SCHOOLDAYS, 1920-1930
by Eric Ayres
If you attended School in England in the era of the 1920s or 30s as I did, every child was required to write an essay, or composition in brief, during that term. A short story on any subject, but keep it brief, and it had to make sense, well dipping your pen into the inkwell (red and black in those days), and making a start without letting a drop splash onto the page of your exercise book, (blotting your copy book) and making a start was to an 11 or 12 year old a real torture, which often resulted with the reward of a couple of strokes from the Master’s cane for any mistakes. The Master’s cane was in those days very much in evidence, you were also told that you will “finish this essay, no matter how long it took”, and will “read it out loud at assembly to the whole school”, to show how much you have learned this term. “So sit down and try harder boy”, which of course you did, if only to avoid another session with the Master’s cane.
Many years later one of my grandchildren, who was staying with me for a few days, during a half term break, asked me if I had ever written an essay. I asked him “why do you ask?”, and he said that it was a new thing that they were doing in his class at school, and that every child in the class was asked to write one, and bring it in, on the first day back from half term break and also that a prize would be given for the best one presented, the one with less than 75 words would be the winner. “Got any ideas Granddad?”
Well, thinking back to my own school-days, (St Augustine’s Boys C of E Anglican). Where discipline was dispensed readily to encourage learning. One of the Masters at the beginning of term, said “stand!”, which we did, and then told us to repeat the School Motto, (“Manners Maketh Man”). “Sit” he said, “you all remember the School Motto, now I want you all to remember this which is written on the blackboard”. He turned the board round, and written on it was the following: “Richard Of York Gave Battle In Vain. The Quick Brown Fox jumps over the lazy dog”. “Now write these sentences down into your exercise books, and tell me next week what you think they mean”.
The method of teaching in those days was far different to what it is now, the school term started in our class by nominating the Monitors: Ink, Class, Milk, Headmaster, Team, and Blackboard. This went on and was the Master’s way of delegating every boy a duty to perform by rotating us weekly. The Monitor’s jobs were a privilege to us boys, The Ink Monitor had the task of making sure that all the classroom inkwells were full, blotting paper was given to all the class at the beginning of the week, pen nibs were replaced, and all the nibs licked, to remove any oil (otherwise the ink would run off the nib, blotting your book, with two strokes of the cane administered immediate). The oil was to preserve the nib from rust, this was before fountain pens were allowed, or ball pens invented, The Ink Monitor also had the job of mixing the ink from powder, in the presence of the School Caretaker, before School started, and issuing it. The privilege was being excused from School assembly and prayers.
The Class Monitor was responsible for the desks and seats, to be ready for class assembly, The Milk Monitor, which never started until my last term at school, was to ensure that in winter the milk bottles (One third of a pint and at a half penny a day each) were put on the top of the combustion stove in the basement to warm up, and that the straw hole was perforated ready for the straw. The Headmaster Monitor was usually taken from the top class only, and his job was messenger boy, and the privilege to go to the local shop to get his cigarettes, and the card inside the packet. When the headmaster rang his little bell, you knocked on the door and announced your presence, “Head boy here Sir”. This job was for the first hour of the School day, and you were excused prayers to enable you to catch up with your lost lessons. The Team Monitor’s job, (we had Four teams: Blue, Yellow, Red and Green, named as Angles, Celts, Romans and Saxons), was to encourage their team to gain more points by ensuring that their team was the best.
Blackboard Monitor had the task of cleaning the board at the start of every lesson as required by the Master, and shaking the duster outside, not in the classroom. There was another Monitor, the Roll monitor. This involved getting the rubber print rolls out of the cupboard. These rolls had maps and areas printed and embossed on them of different designs, some of the sea coast, some of the map of England, Wales, Scotland, sea ports, mountains, etc. and the Monitor’s job was to fit the roll onto the roll handle, and make sure that the ink pad was filled. The job was to roll out the plan, map or what the Master had asked for, and roll the design onto paper for every boy in class. It could be the map of the coast line and towns, and your job was to identify all of the fishing ports, or towns, mountains, or rivers which were displayed in your sheet of paper, which the Master marked, and if you had it wrong, then another visit to the cane, and so we were taught, our exercise books were very helpful though, as they had all of the tables printed on the back cover, Times tables, measurements in length, weights, solids and liquids, Such was the teaching in those days of the 20`s and 30`s.
We all left school at or before our 14th birthday, able to read, write, add up and count, know our tables, and could name every town, city, and most Counties in Britain, plus all of the major ports, and weather zones around our coastline. We could name nearly all of the area’s coloured red on the world map, but in those days we had an Empire, and King George V was on the throne. Most children belonged to some organisation or other, such as Boy Scouts, Guides, Boys Brigade, Nurses, etc. and attended School in the uniform of the association which they represented. They stood to attention when called to do so, especially on Armistice day, Empire day, and other occasions, danced around the maypole without any embarrassment, and even felt queer at times.
We all, every one of us stood up to attention whenever the National Anthem was played, but then we where mostly English, Scottish, Irish or Welsh children, and all subjects of King George V. You got a clip round the ear to remind you to show a little respect, and to be proud of your country. It saddens me on Armistice day, when at Church, that the Priest has to remind some, or most these days, that the National Anthem can be found at Hymn number 560 in the English Hymnal, alternate version, or second version, Hymns Ancient and Modern number 293 of our National Anthem. And then waits for the congregation to find it before the organ begins to play. How times have changed! There was a time when everyone, that is, everyone of King George’s subjects, did not need a Hymn Book to enable them to sing the National Anthem, and to stand up whilst they were able to do so. I do notice that in the USA every citizen, or nearly every citizen, stands up with their hand over their heart, whilst their National Anthem is being played, and they all seem to know the Pledge of loyalty to their Country. Perhaps I am being too patriotic, but then again I have stood up and helped to defend my Country when called upon to do so, which I am proud to say. But enough of this for a time.
The Blackboard reminder for us boys was “Richard Of York Gave Battle In Vain” which described all of the initial letters of the colours in the rainbow, Red, Orange, Yellow, etc. The other two sentences contained all of the letters in the Alphabet, There are others such as “Spring Forward, fall back”, to describe the change from BST to GMT. More another time.
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Easter
Easter Sunday with Andrew, Carley, Kate, Steve, Doug and Jo. After all these years there is still something magical about a box full of Legos!
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UNCG_Chariots_Spring 2012_Concert
This weekend Jo and I went to see Alex and his A cappella group “The Chariots” give a concert at UNCG in Greensboro, NC. Another great night. Check out one of their great songs!
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Martin Luther King Day (and an anniversary)
Here is a picture of Jo and I on top of Crowder’s Mountain, which is our favorite hiking location, as it’s only about a 40 minute drive from home, not to mention it is a nice walk with great scenery. Today is Martin Luther King Day, and both Jo and I got the day off. But today also happens to be the anniversary of our first date, which was six years ago! So happy anniversary Jo! Love, Doug
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A Little Story and a Little Movie
You’ll have to excuse me as I post once again a story about Mom. In April, 2008 the Newseum opened in Washington, D.C. (“The Newseum is an interactive museum of news and journalism located at 555 Pennsylvania Ave. NW”). Mom went with one of her senior groups to the Newseum just before they opened to take a tour. One of the extras that you can buy while at the Newseum is to have a movie made of you in front of a green screen giving a news update just like they do on TV. They were giving it away free to Mom’s group, so Mom gave it a try. Mom, being Mom, had a little bit of difficulty getting through the script. So she would not have been a very good TV news person, but some of her personality comes out in the movie instead. She called me right after she got home that day to get that movie onto her computer, which I did. I don’t think Mom was too exited about it, since she screwed up there at the end, so all she wanted was to have that movie on her computer so she could show people. After that I didn’t think of it much. After she died I re-did her computer and gave it to David, with a new operating system and thinking there was nothing on there that needed to be saved. Shortly after it was too late I thought of the movie. I couldn’t find that movie anywhere but knowing that I am a pack rat when it comes to computer data, I suppressed my disappointment in losing that movie with the thought that it would emerge sooner or later. Without getting into the technical details, this morning I had one of those epiphanies common to people who should already know something and suddenly it comes back, and I instantly knew where that movie was! Yeah, I’m slow like that.
I’m very happy to have found this little artifact, quite late, perhaps, but happily, not lost forever either. Even though it’s such a little thing, yet at the end of the movie you can see her personality coming out a little and remember her the way she was. So click on the picture of Mom above and you should attach to the movie. It will take a while to load, but should run okay for you. Let me know if you have problems with it, but it’s working for me after a minute or so of load time.
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Christmas and Boxing Day 2011
Another year has come and gone and it seems no time at all since we just celebrated Christmas. Yet here we are again reflecting on another year and enjoying the opportunity of being together. Lots of food, presents, and best of all, family time. We played games, shared stories, and as always, ate just that little bit too much.
On Christmas Eve Dave, Veronica, Coleman, and Emily came for the day, and although it was a brief visit, it was lovely to see them. Then on Boxing Day we were joined by Kristen, Lara and Philip, who enjoyed their first official Boxing Day; hopefully we didn’t scare them off and they will come again next year. We all missed Connie who is far away in Colorado but fingers crossed she will be here next year.
To all of you reading this, we all send our best wishes for 2012.
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The First Annual UNCG Aca-Jam
Last Tuesday, Jo and I drove to Greensboro to see Alex and his a cappella group “The Chariots” host a concert “The First Annual UNCG Aca-Jam” We heard the group sing a number of great songs, including two solos by Alex. The other a cappella groups on campus, Divine Harmony, Spartones, Sappphires and Seraphim were there to sing a number of songs also. It was a great concert and we had a great time. Nice job Alex!
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